Friends mean everything for me. We should have friends as many as possible.
Sometimes, make new friends hard to do, whether because of lack of knowledge or lack of opportunity to do that. Here is tips to make new friends :
- Spend more time around people
Friends seldom come to your home then hanging out with you only at home. You must go outside from your home then meet new people and spend more time with them.- Join clubs with people who have common interests with you or not.
- Use the web / Internet but GET OUT. You can use internet to meet people who have some interests with you. But you still have to get out, meet with them if any land coffee(Kopi Darat) :p.
- Join Sports Team. We, sometimes think to join sports club should have skill in that sport, but we can join if we don't have skill. The point from sport is fun, game and exercise to get healthy.
- Volunteer. In foundation we can join as volunteer besides we can make friends we can also help poor people.
- Always try and talk about stuff that they like and more about them.
- Talk to people. Eventhough we have join clubs, being volunteer if we don't talk we can't make friends. Here is tips to talk :
- Make eye-contact
- Start a conversation
- Make small talk
- Introduce yourself in the middle of conversation. You can say "oh, by the way my name is ........".
- Initiate a get-together. You can talk to people, but if you don't open with them maybe you can't get another opportunity to meet them again. So,
- Ask their interest, if you have same interest, you can share or ask about that.
- Ask them out for lunch or coffee. This way could know them more.
- Don't pressure them being your friend.
- Be good friend. If you have found your potential friends, remember to do your part (i.e remember birthday, doing some activities, ask how the other person feeling).
- Be Reliable
- Be Trustworthy
- Be Good listener
- Be There
- Choose your friends wisely. There are so many friends out there, but only few of them who really friends. So, Choose wisely.
- Start Listening your friends. Everyone wants to feel important and loved. Even just listening what they said.
3 comments:
"Friends seldom come to your home then hanging out with you only at home", what's that mean????
Be good friend. If you have found your potential friends, remember to do your part (i.e remember birthday, doing some activities, ask how the other person feeling).
Be Reliable
Be Trustworthy
Be Good listener
Be There
wow..wow..wow..i love this,love this very much ^__^
is it your own creativity or ??? two thumbs up (".")
ehm, i am ur potential friend, so do u know my birthday?do u know what i like?do u know my some activity??hehehehe kidding ^^)v
i think you forgot one thing,in friendship you should be yourself, not someone else..
makes your all friends love because that is the way you are not someone else.. oce.. *.*
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